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Treating Sex Addiction

At the Center for Relational Recovery, our sex addiction treatment program is designed to not just arrest compulsive sexual behaviors but to address and repair the underlying dynamics that often drive the addiction. We then focus on helping individuals learn to attach and function in their adult relationships in ways that work for them and provide the connection and meaning that are primary to our health and happiness as human beings.

Treatment Focus

At the Center for Relational Recovery we are committed to providing equal support and expertise to all three parties impacted by sexual addiction: the addicted individual, the partner and the couple. Our treatment program is designed with a healing pathway for all three entities that weaves together throughout the course of treatment. By working with all three entities we are able to look at the “system” the couple has created together, seeing all the relational dynamics and how they interweave and interact in the relationship. This method allows couples to make quicker progress, as the “whole story” of the relationship is being understood and addressed throughout therapy.

 


Comprehensive Treatment Program

Treatment for sex addiction and betrayal trauma consists of a combination of individual therapy, couples therapy, group therapy and classes and workshops offered to support the recovery process. These different elements are combined to create an individualized treatment path that best fits each person and couple.


Foundations for Recovery 15-Week Online Class

Foundations for Recovery is the first step on the treatment path for clients dealing with sex addiction. This 15-week class is designed to provide the information, direction and support urgently needed by individuals impacted by sex addiction. It gives participants a solid foundation of information and understanding and teaches the beginning skills and tools needed for successful recovery. Participants complete the first eight tasks of recovery by the end of class.

Foundations is held on Monday evenings from 6-8 pm Eastern. For more information please call our Client Care Manager at (571)-442-1898.

Group Therapy

Group Therapy is the heart of treatment at the Center for Relational Recovery. Change happens in relationship with others as we allow ourselves to be fully known and open ourselves to the experiences of others.

Group therapy provides a forum for growth and healing that is distinct from what is experienced in individual therapy. Group becomes a laboratory for practicing new skills and behaviors. Members learn to talk freely with others about concerns to better understand themselves and learn new ways of thinking, feeling, and acting. Clients in treatment for sex addiction and betrayal trauma are expected to participate in group therapy as the core modality of their treatment.

Relational Recovery groups meet weekly for 1 ½ hours on different day and evenings of the week. For a full group schedule, please visit the calendar.


Treatment Phases

Sex Addiction treatment progresses through four phases at the Center for Relational Recovery. Each of these phases focuses on successfully completing specific tasks in the recovery process. These phases weave together the treatment of the individual dealing with addiction, the partner and the couple.

Sex Addiction and Partner Trauma – Phases of Treatment

Phase 1 (Months 1-4): Relearn, Rewire, Relate

Sex Addiction

Focused on arresting compulsive behavior, addressing neurochemical impacts and developing new neuropathways to support healthy behavior, new emotional awareness, and build relational connections.

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Phase 1 (Months 1-4): Relearn, Rewire, Relate

Sex Addiction
Intake Appointment
Assessment (3 Appointments)
Complete Sexual Dependency Inventory (SDI) & Technology Assessment

Sex Addiction Tasks:

  • Break through denial
  • Understand addiction
  • Surrender to the process
  • Limit damage from behavior
  • Establish sobriety
  • Ensure physical integrity
  • Participate in a culture of support
  • Understand multiple addictions
Couples

Attention to helping the couple to manage the relational criss and begin to stabilize so that the recovery process can begin.

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Phase 1 (Months 1-4): Relearn, Rewire, Relate

Couples
Intake Appointment
Assessment Results and Treatment Plan Review Appointment

Couple Stabilization Tasks:

  • Begin Foundations for Recovery class
  • Manage the crisis
  • Create boundaries and bottom lines
  • Negotiate abstinence contract
  • Attend Disclosure Prep Workshop
  • Post disclosure prep appointment
  • Learn to communicate effectively about the addiction
Partner Trauma

Address the acute trauma reactions partners experience, learning to set boundaries, establish emotional and physical safety and create a plan for support and self-care.

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Phase 1 (Months 1-4): Relearn, Rewire, Relate

Partner Trauma
Intake Appointment
Assessment (3 Appointments)
Complete Inventory for Partner Attachment, Stress and Trauma (IPAST)

Partner Trauma Tasks:

  • Cope with the trauma of discovery
  • Manage the crisis
  • Develop plan for support and self-care
  • Understand the nature of addiction
  • Deal with the emotional aftershock
  • Work through betrayal blindness
  • Learn to set and maintain boundaries

Phase 2 (Months 5-18): Re-Parent, Restructure, Repair

Sex Addiction

Focused on resolving the underlying wounds that often contribute to compulsive sexual behavior including shame reduction, emotional regulation, restructuring the relationship with the self, creating balance and learning self-care.

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Phase 2 (Months 5-18): Re-Parent, Restructure, Repair

Sex Addiction
  • Begin Trauma and Recovery Group
  • Move to Relational Recovery group
  • Attend Core Issues of Codependence Workshop
  • Attend Healing and Re-parenting the Wounded Child Workshop
Sex Addiction Tasks
  • Acknowledge cycles of abuse
  • Resolve original conflicts/wounds
  • Reduce shame
  • Restructure relationship with self
  • Grive losses
  • Take responsibility
  • Create lifestyle balance
  • Establish healthy sleep, exercise and nutrition patterns
  • Build supportive personal relationships
  • Develop a spiritual life
Couples
Couple completes Formal Disclosure, Partner Impact Letter and Restitution Letter and begins the repair process around the relational injuries created by the betrayal trauma.
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Phase 2 (Months 5-18): Re-Parent, Restructure, Repair

Couples
  • Begin Group Therapy
  • Attend Core Issues of Codependence Workshop
  • Attend Healing and Re-parenting the Wounded Child Workshop
Couples Repair Tasks
  • Engage repair process
  • Learn differentiation skills
  • Learn self-regulation skills
  • Learn listening and speaking boundaries
  • Complete Formal Disclosure
  • Process and work through emotional impacts of disclosure
  • Complete Partner Impact Letter
  • Complete Emotional Restitution Letter
  • Rebuild trust
  • Develop couples community of support
Partner Trauma

Centers around resolving childhood wounds and current trauma through learning new ways of coping and relating. Focus is on reducing shame, learning to express needs and wants, operating from inherent worth and finding your voice.

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Phase 2 (Months 5-18): Re-Parent, Restructure, Repair

Partner Trauma
  • Begin Group Therapy
  • Attend Core Issues of Codependence Workshop
  • Attend Healing and Re-parenting the Wounded Child Workshop
Partner Trauma Tasks
  • Reduce and cope with triggers
  • Reduce shame
  • Identify and express needs/wants
  • Operate from inherent worth
  • Grive losses
  • Build supportive personal relationships
  • Resolve original conflicts/wounds
  • Restructure relationship with self
  • Establish healthy self-care patterns
  • Develop a spiritual life

Phase 3 (Months 18-24): Restore, Renew, Rebuild

Sex Addiction
Focus shifts to engaging life and relationships using new tools and skills. Reconnection and creating of a new relationship with one’s partner or beginning to explore healthy relationships with others is central.
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Phase 3 (Months 18-24): Restore, Renew, Rebuild

Sex Addiction
  • Continue Group Therapy
  • Complete Hold Me Tight Workshop Series
  • Attend Healthy Sexuality Workshop
Sex Addiction Tasks
  • Restore financial viability
  • Restore meaningful work
  • Alter dysfunctional family relationships
  • Resolve issues with children
  • Resolve issues with extended family
  • Restore healthy sexuality
Couples
Couple begins deep therapy work to establish emotional safety, connection and intimate bonding with one another as wounds are repaired and new relational patterns are established.
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Phase 3 (Months 18-24): Restore, Renew, Rebuild

Couples
  • Continue Group Therapy
  • Complete Hold Me Tight Workshop Series
  • Attend Healthy Sexuality Workshop
Couples Reconnection Tasks
  • Begin Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples
  • Commit/recommit to primary relationship
  • Succeed in intimacy
  • Restore healthy sexuality
  • Restore emotional safety and connection
  • Restore play, risk-taking and sense of adventure
  • Engage in spirituality as a couple
Partner Trauma
Attention is on reclaiming sexual health, rebuilding trust, learning to engage in relationships in a healthy, emotional connected and present manager and expanding life to operate more from your true self.
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Phase 3 (Months 18-24): Restore, Renew, Rebuild

Partner Trauma
  • Continue Group Therapy
  • Complete Hold Me Tight Workshop Series
  • Attend Healthy Sexuality Workshop
Partner Trauma Tasks
  • Rebuild trust
  • Restore healthy sexuality
  • Re-engage vulnerability and risk
  • Grant yourself permission to heal
  • Alter dysfunctional family relationships
  • Engage life outside of the relationship

Phase 4 (Ongoing): Reinforce, Recreate, Regain

Sex Addiction
Individuals graduate from individual and group therapy while maintaining their community of support and 12-step recovery work. Couples work continues or is graduated from as the relationship heals and moves forward. Spiritual and relational connections are maintained as central to meaningful, joyful living.
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Phase 4 (Ongoing): Reinforce, Recreate, Regain

Sex Addiction Tasks
  • Graduate from group therapy
  • Graduate from individual therapy
  • Maintain recovery program
  • Live life in community
  • Reinforce new habits and way of life
  • Maintain spiritual relationship
Couples
Individuals graduate from individual and group therapy while maintaining their community of support and 12-step recovery work. Couples work continues or is graduated from as the relationship heals and moves forward. Spiritual and relational connections are maintained as central to meaningful, joyful living.
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Phase 4 (Ongoing): Reinforce, Recreate, Regain

Couples Tasks
  • Graduate from couple’s therapy
  • Maintain couple’s recovery program
  • Reinforce new habits and way of life
  • Maintain and evolve healthy sexual relationship
  • Maintain and deepen emotional bond and connection
  • Maintain and develop community
Partner Trauma
Individuals graduate from individual and group therapy while maintaining their community of support and 12-step recovery work. Couples work continues or is graduated from as the relationship heals and moves forward. Spiritual and relational connections are maintained as central to meaningful, joyful living.
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Phase 4 (Ongoing): Reinforce, Recreate, Regain

Partner Trauma Tasks
  • Graduate from group therapy
  • Graduate from individual therapy
  • Maintain recovery program
  • Live life in community
  • Reinforce new habits and way of life
  • Maintain spiritual relationship

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