She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman by Ian Kerner Ian Kerner, an evangelist of the female orgasm and sex therapist, believes that the secret to a woman's arousal process is to become "cliterate" and to master the art of oral sex. This fun and informative book is a "virtual encyclopedia of female pleasure". Unveil the mystery of female satisfaction and bring more … [Read more...]
Betrayal Requires Relational Recovery
If the significant wound of betrayal happens in relationship (and betrayal is always relational), then it makes sense that our healing and restoration must also happen in relationship. The impact of betrayal is always felt most profoundly in our sense of relational disconnection. We feel disconnected from ourselves and who we knew ourselves to be, from our significant other and who we thought he … [Read more...]
RE-PARENTING THE WOUNDED CHILD WITHIN WORKSHOP
If we experienced parenting that was critical, neglectful or indulgent we will often become adults who treat ourselves from this same paradigm, parenting ourselves the way that we were parented. This workshop will teach you how to re-parent yourself, changing how you care for and feel about yourself and how you relate to those you love. To register please contact Jani Harper at 571-442-1898 … [Read more...]
Emotional and Relational Health: The 5 Core Issues
There are five core issues that are central to being an emotionally and relationally healthy adult. How we are parented around these issues shapes how we relate to ourselves and others. These five core issues are: Being Valuable (Self-esteem issues) Being Vulnerable (Boundary issues) Being Imperfect (Perfection issues) Being Dependent (Needs/wants issues) Being Spontaneous (Moderation … [Read more...]
Love and Survival – Boundaries in Relationship
Written by Cheryl Schenck, LPC, CSAT This time of year, many of us are spending more time with extended family than usual, which often brings up conflicted and uncomfortable feelings. One of the secrets to surviving these complicated, yet meaningful relationships is to have an understanding of boundaries in relationships. We need to have good boundaries to love well. Boundaries encompass … [Read more...]