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July Recommended Reading

Surviving Infidelity: Making Decisions, Recovering from the Pain by Rona B. Subotnik and Gloria Harris This book is an oldie but goodie. It has been around for years but has stood the test of time and is still relevant today for those healing from infidelity. The beginning of the book can be particularly helpful for those who are dealing with emotional affairs. The authors devote a section to … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Recommended Reading, Recovery Resources Tagged With: Hope, Recommended Reading, Recovery

Embracing Failure in Recovery

By: Robert Rubinow, LPC The addicted mind is permeated with thoughts that bend one’s view of reality into an unrecognizable panorama. These negative thoughts—like little seedlings deposited by our adverse experiences of the world, and often, the families or cultures we grow up in—grow over time into an interconnected labyrinth of beliefs with deep and hazardous roots, like a dense, defended … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Hope, Inspirational, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction Tagged With: Hope, Inspiration, Recovering Couples, Recovery, Sexual Addiction

June Recommended Reading

Love Sense: The Revolutionary New Science of Romantic Relationships by Dr. Sue Johnson Sue Johnson is the founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, an attachment-based approach that helps couple build a safe bond with one another that allows intimacy to flourish. While Johnson has written several books on EFT this is her most popular seller as it provides an eye-opening … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, News, Recommended Reading, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, Recommended Reading, Recovering Couples

CRR Team Spotlight, Cheryl Schenck

Over the coming weeks we want to introduce you to members of CRR’s Clinical Team who you may not yet know. This week we invite you to take a few minutes to get to know a little bit more about Cheryl Schenck. Cheryl Schenck is a Licensed Professional Counselor who works with individuals and couples, and leads groups. Cheryl has been with the Center for Relational Recovery since 2012. After she … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, Healthy Sex, Hope, News, Pornography Addiction, Recovering Couples, Recovery Resources, Sexual Addiction, The Aftermath of Betrayal, Trauma Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, LPC, Mental Health, News, Pornography Addiction, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction, Trauma

Do My Words Matter?

Words are potent. They can be the vehicle we use to deliver love, affirmation, appreciation, and hope. Conversely, words have the power to hurt, condescend, hate, and offend. In the Bible, the book of Proverbs says, “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” Sigmund Freud said, “Words have a magical power. They can either bring the greatest happiness or the deepest despair.” Even with … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, Hope, Recovering Couples Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Hope, Recovering Couples

The Gifts of Gratitude in Recovery

“Gratitude is the ability to experience life as a gift. It liberates us from the prison of self-preoccupation.” ― John Ortberg It is easy during recovery—when our eyes are turned toward our failures and our hopes toward sobriety—to become lost in self-preoccupation and unhealthy introspection. After all, depending on our medicated self to “figure it all out” has been our modus operandi for a … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Inspirational, News, Recovery Resources Tagged With: Hope, Inspiration, Recovery

May Recommended Reading

Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love by Pia Mellody First published over 15 years ago, this book is still the go-to resource for understanding love addiction and love avoidance. Pia Mellody masterfully lays out a clear understanding of how the attachment patterns of love addiction and avoidance manifest in relationships, helping the reader identify each … [Read more...]

Filed Under: News, Recommended Reading, Sexual Addiction Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, Recommended Reading, Trauma

CRR Team Spotlight, Bruce Butler

Over the coming weeks we want to introduce you to members of CRR’s Clinical Team who you may not yet know. This week we invite you to take a few minutes to get to know a little bit more about Bruce Butler. Bruce Butler has been a member of the Clinical Team at the Center for Relational Recovery since 2013. Bruce specializes in treating individuals and couples dealing with relational (marital) … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, Hope, News, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction, Trauma Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, News, Pornography Addiction, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction

But If Not

My sister is a potter. Well, really she is an artist and one of the ways she expresses all the pent-up artistic ability she carries around is through pottery. I get pictures texted to me at random times of vases, pots, sculptures, and platters, all thrown and carved, showing exquisite care and intricate detail. Often, these are pictures of the raw clay item waiting to be glazed and fired in the … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, Hope, Inspirational, News Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, Michelle Mays, Recovering Couples

CRR Team Spotlight, Michelle Mays

Over the coming weeks we want to introduce you to members of CRR’s Clinical Team who you may not yet know. This week we invite you to take a few minutes to get to know a little bit more about Michelle Mays. Michelle D. Mays LPC, CSAT-S is the founder and Clinical Director of the Center for Relational Recovery, serving individuals and couples struggling with sexual addiction, betrayal trauma, … [Read more...]

Filed Under: Betrayed Partners, Healthy Sex, Hope, News, Pornography Addiction, Recovering Couples, Recovery Resources, Sexual Addiction, The Aftermath of Betrayal, Trauma Tagged With: Betrayed Partners, Center for Relational Recovery, Hope, LPC, Mental Health, Michelle Mays, Pornography Addiction, Recovering Couples, Sexual Addiction, TheAftermathofBetrayal, Therapist, Trauma

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Why We Sherlock, Part 1

Yes, I did. I just turned Sherlock into a verb. Someone slap a trademark on that for me, … [Read More...]

CRR Blog is Moving

You may have noticed that there is not much being posted here on the Center for Relational Recovery … [Read More...]

Resisting The Temptation To Isolate After Betrayal

In the aftermath of betrayal, it can be tempting to isolate – curling into yourself and hiding away … [Read More...]

Setting Realistic Expectations After Betrayal

In the aftermath of betrayal, your body and mind are struggling with an ongoing trauma response. As … [Read More...]

The Cheating Partner’s Moment of Truth

Two things motivate change in human beings: fear and desire. After the crisis of betrayal, fear is … [Read More...]

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