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If you are a betrayed partner, the holidays can be an incredibly challenging time as you deal with pressure, expectations, grief and loss. Here are four different tips and things for you to consider as you navigate your way through the holiday season.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

If you are a betrayed partner, the holidays can be an incredibly challenging time as you deal with pressure, expectations, grief and loss. Here are four different tips and things for you to consider as you navigate your way through the holiday season.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

4 Tips to Help Betrayed Partners Navigate the Holidays

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In Staying, Leaving or Stuck? I dive into the topic of staying or leaving your relationship. In our culture, we hear many blanket statements about how betrayed partners should proceed after betrayal. In this video, I will help you to move from black and white thinking to a more nuanced and complex view of this topic.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Staying, Leaving or Stuck?

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Four Types of Gaslighting

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Many betrayed partners are confused when they find out their significant other has been cheating or dealing with a sexual addiction. They are confused because in their relationship, the partner has avoided sex or infrequently engaged in sex. When they find out their partner has a sexual life outside of the relationship it raises all kinds of questions about why the partner wants sex with others but not with them. These questions can be painful and cause feelings of shame or rejection.

In my most recent video, I discuss four reasons why someone might be sexual outside of their primary relationship while avoiding sex within the relationship.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

4 Reasons Your Partner May Be Having Sex With Others But Not With You

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In this video, Michelle describes the process of therapeutic disclosure follow sexual betrayal, including the betrayed partner's role and how they can expect to get their questions answered and gain the clarity needed to move forward with important decisions about their lives and relationships.

This video was originally created for Hope After Betrayal, a private Facebook community group for those impacted by betrayal trauma. www.facebook.com/groups/hopeafterbetrayal/

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

When and How Betrayed Partners Ask Questions in the Disclosure Process

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Betrayed partners have a very real need for disclosure. In this video, Michelle describes the recovery process and the important stages that must come before the formal disclosure takes place. Although the process takes some time, it is absolutely worth the wait and will reduce trauma and improve recovery outcomes in the long-term.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Why Disclosure Can Take So Long and Why It’s Worth the Wait

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

Braving Hope 1 Year Anniversary Celebration

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What separates those individuals and couples who are thriving in recovery from those who are struggling? Michelle shares important insights from the Center for Relational Recovery about what elements of a recovery plan help to get individuals and couples on the right track.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Individuals & Couples Thriving After Betrayal: What are they doing right?

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Michelle discusses the competing attachments experienced by the cheating partner and how these influence the common behavior that occurs after betrayal is discovered.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

The Cheating Partner's Competing Attachments

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