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Everyone has an opinion about whether you should stay or go after discovering that your partner has cheated.

In this video, I'll share the 3 MOST IMPORTANT things you need to consider before making a decision about staying in or leaving your relationship.

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Everyone has an opinion about whether you should stay or go after discovering that your partner has cheated.

In this video, I'll share the 3 MOST IMPORTANT things you need to consider before making a decision about staying in or leaving your relationship.

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Staying or Leaving After Cheating: 3 Things You Need to Know

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Codependency is a hot button issue for betrayed partners! What is codependency? Where did it originate, and how did it become such a popular topic? How does it impact treatment for cheating partners and betrayed partners?

In this video, I'll share my own take on the concept of codependency and how reframing our thinking around this dynamic can help betrayed partners to shed shame and move forward in recovery.

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Are Betrayed Partners Codependent?

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Betrayed partners often struggle to understand their role in their partner's recovery, including a 12 step program, a sponsor, and communication around boundaries and expectations. In this video, Michelle provides insight on what partners have a right to know as they navigate the healing process after sexual betrayal.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

What Betrayed Partners Have a Right to Know About the Cheating Partner's Recovery

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All individuals have an attachment style, which is our innate, instinctual drive to be connected to and attached to others. We fall into two main categories: securely attached and insecurely attached.

More often than not, betrayed partners and those dealing with compulsive sexual behavior are insecurely attached. In this video, we will explore the variations of insecure attachment that show up in this dynamic.

Insecure attachment styles can contribute to a cycle of pursuit and withdrawal. While this dynamic is common in relationships in general, it is greatly intensified in relationships after betrayal.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

How Your Attachment Style Impacts Your Relationship After Betrayal

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If you are a betrayed partner, the holidays can be an incredibly challenging time as you deal with pressure, expectations, grief and loss. Here are four different tips and things for you to consider as you navigate your way through the holiday season.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

4 Tips to Help Betrayed Partners Navigate the Holidays

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In Staying, Leaving or Stuck? I dive into the topic of staying or leaving your relationship. In our culture, we hear many blanket statements about how betrayed partners should proceed after betrayal. In this video, I will help you to move from black and white thinking to a more nuanced and complex view of this topic.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Staying, Leaving or Stuck?

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Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

Four Types of Gaslighting

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Many betrayed partners are confused when they find out their significant other has been cheating or dealing with a sexual addiction. They are confused because in their relationship, the partner has avoided sex or infrequently engaged in sex. When they find out their partner has a sexual life outside of the relationship it raises all kinds of questions about why the partner wants sex with others but not with them. These questions can be painful and cause feelings of shame or rejection.

In my most recent video, I discuss four reasons why someone might be sexual outside of their primary relationship while avoiding sex within the relationship.

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

4 Reasons Your Partner May Be Having Sex With Others But Not With You

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In this video, Michelle describes the process of therapeutic disclosure follow sexual betrayal, including the betrayed partner's role and how they can expect to get their questions answered and gain the clarity needed to move forward with important decisions about their lives and relationships.

This video was originally created for Hope After Betrayal, a private Facebook community group for those impacted by betrayal trauma. www.facebook.com/groups/hopeafterbetrayal/

Michelle Mays, LPC, CSAT-S is the Founder of PartnerHope.com and the Center for Relational Recovery, an outpatient treatment center located in Northern Virginia. She has helped hundreds of betrayed partners and sexually addicted clients transform their lives and relationships. Michelle is the author of The Aftermath of Betrayal and When It All Breaks Bad and leads the field in identifying and crafting effective treatment strategies for betrayed partners.

www.partnerhope.com
www.relationalrecovery.com

When and How Betrayed Partners Ask Questions in the Disclosure Process

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